... getting courage

It happens at least three times a week... I coach and teach my candidates that they need to ask three questions at the end of every interview:

"How do I stack up with the other candidates that you've been speaking with?"

"Do you have any concerns about my ability to do your job?"

"What do I need to do to get the job?"

If they are speaking to someone other than the hiring authority that may be a screening interview or or an interview beyond the hiring authority:

"Are you going to recommend that I be hired for this position?"

I can't tell you the number of times I ask candidates if they asked these questions... even after I told them... they say something like "Well... it just didn't seem appropriate... we were running out of time... it just didn't like the right thing to ask... blah, blah, blah." In other words what they're saying is, "I just didn't have the guts to ask the cold hard question of  'are you going to hire me'... I just couldn't bring myself to get the courage to run the risk of being told 'no'... I just couldn't do it."

Last week I sent five candidates to one of my clients. I instructed them all to do the same thing and sent all of them to www.thejobsearchsolution.com which teaches in absolute detail exactly how to ask these questions. Only one... I repeat, only one had the courage to ask these questions.

My client said, "It was kind of amazing that only one  of the five actually asked for the job. Tony, I thought you said these guys are really solid professionals. Only one had the courage and guts to ask if I was going to hire. I want that guy to come back."

I know this takes practice and I know it takes courage, if you really want to set yourself apart from all of your competitors and interviewing situation you absolutely have to ask these cold, hard questions. You need to know if your candidate or you're not and you need to know what you need to do to get the job.

I can't make it any more clearer than that!

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