{"id":971,"date":"2013-12-27T22:31:38","date_gmt":"2013-12-28T03:31:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=971"},"modified":"2013-12-27T22:31:38","modified_gmt":"2013-12-28T03:31:38","slug":"job-search-interviewing-and-negotiating-advice-from-the-internet-omg","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/job-search-interviewing-and-negotiating-advice-from-the-internet-omg\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230; job search, interviewing and negotiating advice from the Internet&#8230;OMG!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Over the last few weeks I&#8217;ve listened to or read over 100 video or audio recordings and articles about looking for a job, interviewing and negotiating a job offer&#8230; at least 35% to 40% of the stuff is absolute junk&#8230; in fact, it so bad that if people take the advice they will look for a job for the rest of their life and never find one&#8230; the vast, vast majority of this stuff is written by career advisers and counselors, psychologists, retired executives, gurus, and self-appointed authorities about finding a job or managing your career&#8230; I have no idea where people come up with these cockamamie ideas but here are a few of them&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I will enumerate them here and over the next week or so explaining how absolutely downright hideous or stupid they are&#8230; one thing is for sure, these people never really found anybody a job&#8230; since we have free speech in this country, they are entitled to tell you this stuff&#8230; but you don&#8217;t have to believe it&#8230; and you shouldn&#8217;t&#8230;here they are:<\/p>\n<p>When you are asked how much money you are making, counter that question with a question by asking &#8220;well, how much does this position pay?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When asked about how much money you are making, give a range of the money you&#8217;ve made over the last few years.<\/p>\n<p>Have three numbers in mind regarding the salary you will be willing to accept&#8230; a high salary, a median salary and the lowest salary you would consider.<\/p>\n<p>Employers want to pay as little as they can get away with<\/p>\n<p>Candidates always want the most money they can get<\/p>\n<p>When given an offer, tell people you&#8217;d like to go home and think about it for a couple of days<\/p>\n<p>Never accept the first offer<\/p>\n<p>He who brings up money first loses<\/p>\n<p>Everything is negotiable<\/p>\n<p>Employers always have room to negotiate<\/p>\n<p>Employers always start to offer you a job at the lowest money they can get away with<\/p>\n<p>Never take responsibility for saying &#8220;no&#8221;&#8230; blame your reason for saying no on \u00a0someone else you have consulted<\/p>\n<p>Always ask for more money than you want<\/p>\n<p>When interviewing, mirror the interviewing authority<\/p>\n<p>When you go into the interview&#8230; keep breathing (&#8230; seriously, that is exactly what an interview counselor recommended)<\/p>\n<p>Tell the interviewing authority that you need more money because&#8230; and then state the reason why you need more money<\/p>\n<p>When negotiating a salary always wince at the first offer<\/p>\n<p>In an interview, don&#8217;t tell people you are looking for a job&#8230;but simply exchanging information to see if \u00a0there is mutual interest either now or in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, when it comes time for them to make an offer, they<em> really, really <\/em>want\u00a0you and so you&#8217;re in the driver&#8217;s seat<\/p>\n<p>Target the top 10 companies you would like to go to work for and focus everything you can to get an interview with them<\/p>\n<p>Beginning next week \u00a0I will discuss these insane statements in detail&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the last few weeks I&#8217;ve listened to or read [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>... job search, interviewing and negotiating advice from the Internet...OMG! 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