{"id":96,"date":"2009-08-31T21:52:22","date_gmt":"2009-09-01T02:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=96"},"modified":"2009-08-31T21:52:22","modified_gmt":"2009-09-01T02:52:22","slug":"but-i-never-hear-back-from-themits-sooooooo-mean-and-rude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/but-i-never-hear-back-from-themits-sooooooo-mean-and-rude\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;&#8221;but i never hear back from them&#8230;it&#8217;s sooooooo mean and rude&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>we hear this almost daily&#8230;sometimes even about oursleves&#8230;people send a resume&#8230;have an interview..or even two&#8230;then don&#8217;t hear from the employer or interviewing authority&#8230;..<em>ever<\/em>&#8230;not even a &#8220;buzz off&#8221;&#8230;&#8221;you suck&#8221;&#8230;&#8221;wouldn&#8217;t hire you if you were the last candidate on earth&#8221;&#8230;nothing&#8230;nada&#8230;even after they say, &#8220;we&#8217;ll be in touch&#8221;&#8230;(i have had employers <em>tell<\/em> my candidates that they were going to call them with a job offer, then never do it)<\/p>\n<p>we shouldn&#8217;t excuse rude behavior, but your getting mad or upset about this kind of treatment simply won&#8217;t help you get\u00a0 a job&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>it is almost impossible for hiring or interviewing authorities to get back to every candidate whose resume they review or they interview&#8230;simply impossible<\/p>\n<p>lesson: pray for them&#8230;they are covered up with work..maybe they are rude&#8230;maybe even mean&#8230;maybe insensative&#8230;we could go on and on&#8230;but it won&#8217;t do any good&#8230; 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