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so we recruited both of them and set up interviews&#8230;neither Sally nor Mark knew the other was interviewing<\/p>\n<p>Sally was the top performer of the company and our client was very anxious to speak with her&#8230; she, too,was very excited about the interview&#8230; however, when she got there she started &#8220;explaining&#8221; about the lousy place she in which she was working &#8230;<em> &#8220;<strong>the CEO changes his mind every month&#8230; we never know where we are &#8230; I make a lot of money, but it&#8217;s a crazy place to work&#8230; the only people who stay are just as wacky as the CEO and I can&#8217;t wait to leave&#8230;it is<\/strong> <strong>just<\/strong> <\/em><strong><em>a crazy place to work<\/em>&#8220;&#8230;<\/strong> she went on and on about the company, the job, and the people&#8230;. near the end of the interview she started speaking about her track record, which was excellent and how successful she has been and is.\u00a0 Admittedly, our client was impressed&#8230;but her attitude about her present company overrode her presentation of herself.<\/p>\n<p>When Mark interviewed, he took different approach&#8230; he said things along the lines of, <strong><em>&#8220;&#8230;our place is a rather interesting place to work, to say the least, but it is a very gratifying experience&#8230; even though it&#8217;s \u00a0a challenge, I have performed well and I have learned a ton&#8230; the CEO is one of the smartest guys that I&#8217;ve ever run into and even though he&#8217;s a bit erratic, he has given me a tremendous opportunity and I have really appreciated it&#8230; the only reason for leaving\u00a0is to find a better opportunity for me and provide well for my family&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, guess who got hired&#8230;it wasn&#8217;t Sally&#8230; even though Sally had a much better track record than Mark.\u00a0 Our client just didn&#8217;t like how much she&#8217;d badmouthed her present company&#8230; everybody in their market knows how goofy the CEO is and how difficult a place it is to work, but Mark simply handled it better than Sally.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that Sally is a much better performer than Mark &#8230; 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