{"id":786,"date":"2013-08-16T21:48:22","date_gmt":"2013-08-17T02:48:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=786"},"modified":"2013-08-16T21:48:22","modified_gmt":"2013-08-17T02:48:22","slug":"forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/forgiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I heard a great sermon on forgiveness&#8230;how important it is spiritually, psychologically, even physically&#8230;every major faith teaches forgiveness because it doesn&#8217;t come naturally or easily&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Once you get the hang of it..and it may not be easy to practice, it is amazing how much better you feel about yourself..not just the other person ..but yourself&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>How does this effect your job search??..Well, if you are like most job seekers, you have been lied to&#8230;and told you were going to be hired&#8230;interviewed&#8230;and gotten back to&#8230;encouraged, etc. only to be left with <strong>no answers&#8230;silence&#8230;no<\/strong> <strong>communication..<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You sent your resume to a job posting you are &#8216;<strong>PERFECT&#8217;<\/strong> for&#8230;one of your friends said he or she would get you an &#8220;<strong>Interview<\/strong>&#8221; 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