{"id":776,"date":"2013-08-02T21:35:42","date_gmt":"2013-08-03T02:35:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=776"},"modified":"2013-08-02T21:35:42","modified_gmt":"2013-08-03T02:35:42","slug":"how-to-love-your-job-search","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/how-to-love-your-job-search\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230; how to love your job search"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Love is patient<\/strong>&#8230; patient with the people who tell you they&#8217;re going to call you back and then never do&#8230; <strong>patient <\/strong>with the people who tell you you&#8217;re a perfect candidate and you never hear from him again&#8230;<strong> patient<\/strong> with yourself for all your human frailties&#8230;<strong>Love is kind<\/strong>&#8230; Even when you don&#8217;t want to be&#8230; even when you&#8217;re frustrated, mad and angry&#8230;<strong>And it is not jealous<\/strong>&#8230; Of those who get a lot of interviews&#8230; of those who tell you they just got hired or those who may not be as good as you, but get hired&#8230;<strong>Love does not brag<\/strong>&#8230;About the fantastic interview you got or a really great job offer&#8230;<strong>And is not arrogant<\/strong>&#8230; We are as graceful when we get a great interview or get a great job as we are when we &#8220;strikeout&#8221; every job search technique we try&#8230;<strong>Love does not act unbecomingly<\/strong>&#8230; We are nice to people even when they are not nice to us&#8230; we pray for those who won&#8217;t interview us or won&#8217;t hire us&#8230;<strong>It does not seek its own<\/strong>&#8230; It&#8217;s knowing that if we put the hiring authority&#8217;s \u00a0needs first we will get what we want&#8230;<strong>It is not provoked<\/strong>&#8230; No matter how poorly you are treated or frustrated you become you never lose your cool, remembering that you can only control your own feelings and thoughts&#8230;<strong>Love does not take into account a wrong suffered<\/strong>&#8230; 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