{"id":752,"date":"2013-06-14T21:54:51","date_gmt":"2013-06-15T02:54:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=752"},"modified":"2013-06-14T21:54:51","modified_gmt":"2013-06-15T02:54:51","slug":"michael-responded-perfectly-brilliant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/michael-responded-perfectly-brilliant\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;.michael responded perfectly&#8230;brilliant!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Michael had been on six interviews with one company&#8230; just like we talked about last time, a company that was full of doubt and uncertainty and fear&#8230; he gets down to the last interview with the hiring authority&#8217;s boss who is the last step&#8230; the hiring authority did a good job coaching Michael about what his boss was going to be looking for&#8230; in fact, he &#8220;overcoached&#8221; just a bit&#8230; he gave Michael so many &#8220;watch out for this&#8221; \u00a0that Michael, who up until this point \u00a0had been stellar, poised and confident&#8230; all of a sudden became a little nervous.<\/p>\n<p>When he interviewed with the hiring authority&#8217;s boss, he was so self-conscious about getting everything in the conversation he thought he needed to that when he was asked a question he went on and on and on and on&#8230; it was like the guy who, when asked what time it was, told the time, how the watch was made and what places in Switzerland would be good to visit.<\/p>\n<p>The result was that Michael didn&#8217;t let the interviewing authority get much of a word in edgewise&#8230; it so happens that the hiring authority&#8217;s boss was also a big talker and he wanted to do most of the talking&#8230; guys like that get frustrated when they can&#8217;t talk and somebody else goes on and on and on.<\/p>\n<p>Michael was an excellent candidate and so the hiring authority&#8217;s boss didn&#8217;t want to totally eliminate him, but wasn&#8217;t very happy, so he instructed Michael to do a few more due diligence type things and therefore extended the interviewing process longer&#8230; at that point Michael called was just a bit irritated because the interviewing process had already gone way longer than anybody thought it would&#8230; but here is the beauty of what Michael did.<\/p>\n<p>When the hiring authority told Michael that he really didn&#8217;t listen to his boss \u00a0like he should, that he ran off at the mouth and that he really didn&#8217;t give his boss a chance to have a give and take conversation, instead of getting pissed and justifying what he did&#8230; which most candidates would do&#8230; Michael said &#8220;you know, I was trying so hard to do it right&#8230; I was trying so hard to answer every question with everything I knew&#8230;I ran off at the mouth&#8230; I&#8217;m really sorry&#8230; if \u00a0I had it to do again I would&#8217;ve done it differently&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>As I say, most candidates would&#8217;ve gotten all pissed off and justified what they did&#8230; Michael however, acknowledged his mistake, asked for forgiveness and moved on to the next subject&#8230; brilliant!!!<\/p>\n<p>The hiring authority even commented about how gracefully Michael accepted the criticism&#8230; it&#8217;s really easy to get defensive in situations like this&#8230; Michael showed his professionalism by accepting responsibility for what he did, apologizing and asking for forgiveness&#8230; brilliant!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Michael had been on six interviews with one company&#8230; just [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>....michael responded perfectly...brilliant!!! 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