{"id":636,"date":"2013-01-06T22:34:14","date_gmt":"2013-01-07T03:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=636"},"modified":"2013-01-06T22:34:14","modified_gmt":"2013-01-07T03:34:14","slug":"maintaining-a-positive-attitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;maintaining a positive attitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most difficult challenges in a job search&#8230; especially in today&#8217;s market is maintaining a positive attitude. Unfortunately, the majority of things that happen to job seeker are negative&#8230; in fact, my estimate is that there are 15 negative things that happen for every positive.\u00a0\u00a0It is very easy to get what Zig Zigler used to call &#8220;stink&#8217;en think&#8217;en&#8221;&#8230; Just the emotional strain of having to find a job can put people into a negative spiral.<\/p>\n<p>I suggest that job seekers&#8230; or anyone, for that matter&#8230; be constantly reading positive, motivational books and listening to positive CD&#8217;s&#8230; here is a list I recommend&#8230;some are old &#8220;classics&#8221; and some are relatively new&#8230; 15 to 30 minutes of this kind of reading every day makes all the difference in the world&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>Acers of Diamonds<\/em> by R. Conwell<br \/>\nA<em>s a Man Thinketh<\/em> by James Allen<br \/>\n<em>Awaken the Giant Within<\/em> by Anthony Robbins<br \/>\n<em>Beyond Strength:<\/em> <em>Psychological Profiles of Olympic Athletes <\/em>by Steven Ungerleider &amp; Jacqueline Golding<br \/>\n<em>Blink<\/em> by Malcom Gladwell<br \/>\n<em>Devotional Classics<\/em> by Richard J. Foster<br \/>\n<em>In Pursuit of Excellence<\/em> by Terry Orlick<br \/>\n<em>In the Zone: Transcendent Experience in Sports<\/em> by Michael Murphy and Rhea A. White<br \/>\n<em>Inner Athlete<\/em> by Dan Millman<br \/>\n<em>Inward Bound<\/em> by Alexander Everett<br \/>\n<em>Man\u2019s Search for Meaning<\/em> by V. Frankl<br \/>\n<em>Psycho-Cybernetics <\/em>by Maxwell Maltz<br \/>\n<em>Purpose Driven Life<\/em> by Rick Warren<br \/>\n<em>Selling the Invisible<\/em> by Harry Beckwith<br \/>\n<em>Seven Spiritual Laws of Success<\/em> by Deepak Chopra<br \/>\nT<em>he 7 Habits of Highly Effective People<\/em> by Stephen R. Covey<br \/>\n<em>The Achievement Zone<\/em> by Dr. Shane Murphy<br \/>\n<em>The Book of 5 Rings<\/em> by Miyamoto Musashi<br \/>\n<em>The E-Myth<\/em> by Michael Gerber<br \/>\n<em>The Inner Game of Tennis <\/em>by Timothy Gallowey<br \/>\n<em>The Intention Experiment<\/em> by Lynne McTaggart<br \/>\n<em>The Job Search Solution<\/em> Tony Beshara<br \/>\n<em>The Laws of Spirit<\/em> by Dan Millman<br \/>\n<em>The Peaceful Warrior<\/em> by Dan Millman<br \/>\n<em>The Richest Man in Babylon<\/em> by G. Clason<br \/>\n<em>Talent Is Overrated<\/em> by Geoff Colvin<br \/>\n<em>Outliars <\/em>by Malcom Gladwell<br \/>\n<em>Drive<\/em> by Daniel Pink<br \/>\n<em>Predictably Irrational<\/em> by Dan Ariely<br \/>\n<em>Wooden onLeadership<\/em> John Wooden<br \/>\n<em>Willpower<\/em> by Roy Baumeister and John Tierney<br \/>\n<em>Flow<\/em> by Mihaly Csikszentmihaly<br \/>\n<em>Great by Choice<\/em> by Jim Collins and Morten T. Hansen<br \/>\n<em>How We Decide<\/em> by Jonah Lehrer<br \/>\n<em>Willpower<\/em> Roy Baumeister and John Tierny<br \/>\n<em>Nerve<\/em> by Taylor Clark<br \/>\n<em>Subliminal<\/em> by Leonard Mlodinow<\/p>\n<p>Spiritual books, like the Bible, the Koran, the Bhagavad-Gita, Tao Te Ching, books of prayer, etc., are also essential.<\/p>\n<p>I would recommend \u201cHoratio Alger\u201d type stories, like the story of Helen Keller, Colonel Sanders, or any inspirational stories that talk about lessons people learn by living and succeeding in a terribly \u201cunfair\u201d world. Stories about people overcoming a fear, insurmountable odds to triumph in the end, inspire us all.<\/p>\n<p>RECOMMENDED AUDIO CD\u2019S<\/p>\n<p>Norman Vincent Peal, \u00a0Anthony Robbins,\u00a0Phil McGraw (Dr. Phil), \u00a0Dennis Waitley,\u00a0Brian Tracy, \u00a0Zig Ziglar, \u00a0Wayne Dyer, \u00a0Dan Millman,\u00a0Steven Covey and\u00a0Michael Gerber<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most difficult challenges in a job search&#8230; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>...maintaining a positive attitude - Tony Beshara Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"...maintaining a positive attitude - Tony Beshara Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"One of the most difficult challenges in a job search&#8230; [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Tony Beshara Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2013-01-07T03:34:14+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Tony Beshara\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Tony Beshara\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/\",\"name\":\"...maintaining a positive attitude - Tony Beshara Blog\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2013-01-07T03:34:14+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2013-01-07T03:34:14+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/813ec2a09af1cf80ff4eb6d4386ac9b1\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/maintaining-a-positive-attitude\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"&#8230;maintaining a positive attitude\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/\",\"name\":\"Tony Beshara Blog\",\"description\":\"Job Search Solutions\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/813ec2a09af1cf80ff4eb6d4386ac9b1\",\"name\":\"Tony Beshara\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2997977d9f4c9419ddf13ee381c8bb2c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2997977d9f4c9419ddf13ee381c8bb2c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Tony Beshara\"},\"description\":\"Tony Beshara is the owner and president of Babich &amp; Associates, established in 1952, and the oldest placement and recruitment service in Texas. 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