{"id":298,"date":"2012-06-01T22:00:05","date_gmt":"2012-06-02T03:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=298"},"modified":"2012-06-01T22:00:05","modified_gmt":"2012-06-02T03:00:05","slug":"saying-stupid-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/saying-stupid-things\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;saying stupid things"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like I spend a lot of time writing about people not thinking\u00a0through the interviewing process and saying stupid things that end up costing them a job&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>This week we had one candidate\u00a0who, in a final phone\u00a0interview with an HR director&#8230; right before they were going to offer him a job&#8230; was asked why he left one of his previous jobs&#8230; he said he thought for a moment and then said, &#8220;well, they told me it was because of sexual harassment, but I didn&#8217;t do anything and I really don&#8217;t know what they were talking about.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In speaking to the candidate, he told us his old company\u00a0owed him\u00a0$60,000 and according to his contract, if he was fired for cause they wouldn&#8217;t have to pay money. Okay&#8230; fair enough. He said he had absolutely no idea where the sexual harassment accusation came from, but that&#8217;s what their lawyer told him when he asked why he was let go. He never investigated or questioned the dismissal. He simply let it go.<\/p>\n<p>There was absolutely no reason for him to tell the HR director he was dismissed because of a sexual harassment charge. It is nowhere in his record. He was never given any reprimand&#8230; nothing. Why would anyone tell an HR director they were dismissed for sexual harassment if no one has a record of it and, more importantly, it didn&#8217;t happen? This was not some low-level, rookie candidate. He was a guy with 20 years of experience\u00a0who had\u00a0earned well into six figures. So he can&#8217;t claim ignorance. Maybe stupidity&#8230; but not ignorance.<\/p>\n<p>Another one of our candidates told \u00a0one our clients he was dismissed &#8220;with cause&#8221; but didn&#8217;t know what the cause was. He claimed he knew he was fired for a good reason but couldn&#8217;t remember what the reason was. Even after we asked the candidate to think really hard about what he said, he still claimed he couldn&#8217;t remember exactly why he was fired.<\/p>\n<p>This week, another one of our candidates was asked by the\u00a0hiring authority if he had any questions.\u00a0 According to the hiring authority, the candidate\u00a0said, &#8220;geez, I never thought of that question&#8230;I guess I&#8217;m not prepared.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Another one of our candidates, upon arriving in the hiring authority&#8217;s office, announced that she only had 15 or 20 minutes to interview because she had to go pick up her kids at school.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Our organization deals with highly educated, very professional people in just about every discipline. 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