{"id":2674,"date":"2020-02-22T11:17:44","date_gmt":"2020-02-22T16:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=2674"},"modified":"2020-02-28T15:31:20","modified_gmt":"2020-02-28T20:31:20","slug":"if-you-are-the-job-seeker-no-matter-how-passive-or-aggressive-please-stop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/if-you-are-the-job-seeker-no-matter-how-passive-or-aggressive-please-stop\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;&#8230;.. if you are the job seeker, no matter how passive or aggressive please stop:"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;. Keeping your voicemail full, so when I call you I can&#8217;t leave\u00a0a\u00a0message<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;.. Texting me as though you think I&#8217;m on my cell phone all day&#8230; I&#8217;m not&#8230;Most of us that are true recruiters\u2026 on the phone all day&#8230; aren&#8217;t paying attention to their cell phones. They don&#8217;t have time<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230; Having a third of\u00a0 your resume taken up with your picture\u2026 Your &#8220;summary&#8221;\u2026 your &#8220;objective&#8221;\u2026 stupid bullet points like &#8220;great communication skills, both verbal and written&#8221;\u2026 anything on your resume that doesn&#8217;t tell me in a quick SCAN&#8230;(NOT read) who you work for, what they do, what you did and how well you did it\u2026 I&#8217;m going to spend 10 seconds on scanning your resume and it needs to tell me &#8220;why would my client be interested in interviewing this candidate?&#8221; remember, YOUR RESUME IS\u00a0<strong>SCANNED, NOT READ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;. Having no picture on your LinkedIn profile<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Having your picture on your LinkedIn profile looking like you are trying to get a date<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Having a picture on your profile to communicate anything except &#8220;I&#8217;m a professional&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Having circles, boxes, quadrangles, octagons, charts and graphs, maps, instructions on how to put together your kids latest toy&#8230;on your resume<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Having your phone number &#8220;hidden&#8221; somewhere at the bottom of your resume in such small print that I can&#8217;t read it<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Trying to communicate with me exclusively through LinkedIn, so that I have to &#8220;view message&#8221; every time I go to communicate with you. I will stop doing it after I tell you to email me<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;. Only being available at certain narrow times during the day<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;. Telling me that you can&#8217;t come interview with me in my office because you can&#8217;t afford to take the time off, but that you&#8217;d be willing to take time to go interview with an employer. (I&#8217;m not anymore wild about interviewing you face-to-face anymore than you are about interviewing me face-to-face, but I really have to do it if I&#8217;m going to represent you well.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Not stating your name on your voicemail for your cell phone&#8230;. you&#8217;ll feel really stupid if three years from now I have an excellent opportunity for you, call your cell phone and, not being sure it&#8217;s you, hang up&#8230;tell people who call you who you are in your message<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;.. Having a ridiculously stupid email address that is anything but professional&#8230; i&#8217;mastud@gmail.com will not get a positive response<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Using an @aol account&#8230; you will appear to be old<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;.\u00a0 Anything political anywhere&#8230; or any political discussion&#8230; (Years ago I was on the Dr. Phil Show a number of times with Elizabeth Warren\u2026 She was a kook then and she\u2019s still a kook\u2026 I&#8217;m embarrassed that she is an Okie like I am, but I don&#8217;t discuss it&#8230; At least I was born in Muskogee and, yes I&#8217;m an &#8220;Okie from Muskogee.&#8221;)&#8230;. Yes, I can get away with this because I&#8217;m not looking for a job<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; Telling me that you really need a job and then not returning my phone call<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;. Not telling me that you found a job while I&#8217;m trying to get you interviews\u2026 No problem, but please just tell me<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Going totally silent when I tell you I have an interview for you&#8230;and then when you need me 3 years from now, calling me and acting like w\u2019ere old lost cousins&#8230; best of friends, etc.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Being extremely rude to me when you are an employer and then, of course, drastically changing that tune when you need a job. (Of course, I&#8217;m never going to say anything about it, but I do remember it.)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;. 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