Often, when people are laid off or let go from their job and all of a sudden find themselves unhappy,\u00a0they express their\u00a0depressed state by letting themselves go and quit the little disciplines that used to help them feel good about themselves and increase their self-esteem. On top of being mad and angry, they all of a sudden have all kinds of time on their hands as well as being fearful of the daunting task of having to look for a job.<\/p>\n
Rather than begin a massive action plan of looking for a job, they rationalize “taking a small break.” They start sleeping in ever day,\u00a0postpone job search activities and literally get lazy. They delude themselves by thinking they are looking for a job by searching the Internet in their house slippers and pass the time of day “getting ready” to look for a job.<\/p>\n
The little disciplines of life that used to help them with their self-image are eliminated and open the door to self-pity.<\/p>\n
We all know how emotionally devastating and downright debilitating being laid off or fired can be. Even if you have a job you don’t like or you know can\u00a0end at any moment due to the erratic economy, your\u00a0emotional state is low. This kind of low emotional state can lead to some pretty unfortunate results.<\/p>\n
This is a time in one’s life when a person should become even more disciplined than they were before. My experience has been that if people are self disciplined when times are difficult they rebound from the emotional strain faster. I’ve written before about routines and rituals in the job search and how important they are to effectively rebound.<\/p>\n
An emotional blow like being laid off or fired and being faced with time on your hands in a depressing state perpetuates the problem.<\/p>\n
So, some of the things you can do to rebound quickly is to “double” the personal disciplines you had when you were employed. Get up every day at exactly the same time, make your bed, be disciplined about dressing in your business “uniform” for job search activities. Cleaning up your garage… on Saturday morning… never when you should be interviewing… makes you feel better about yourself. Keeping your car clean and tidy makes you feel good when you get in it and drive.<\/p>\n
These little disciplines will help in maintaining your self-confidence. That kind of self-confidence will carry over into the discipline of getting more interviews and performing well on those interviews. You’ll feel better and you’ll do better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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