{"id":2026,"date":"2017-05-19T22:16:43","date_gmt":"2017-05-20T03:16:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/?p=2026"},"modified":"2017-06-06T09:39:53","modified_gmt":"2017-06-06T14:39:53","slug":"get-grit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tonybeshara.com\/blog\/get-grit\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8230;.get grit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jonah Lehrer&#8217;s book, \u201dImagine\u201d, addresses how creativity works. It is an excellent book and comes to a number of conclusions about the fact that creativity is really not as much a gift as it is a developed trait. Psychologists, in recent years, have studied the relationship between persistence and creative achievement and have cited the fact that most creative people have a phenomenal ability to stick with their work in spite of all the difficulties and challenges they&#8217;re faced with. The technical term used for this trait is grit.<\/p>\n<p>It made me realize that one of the reasons we have so many people in America who actually just give up looking for a job when they need one is that they lack grit.<\/p>\n<p>Many of these people who give up looking for a job just plain don&#8217;t know what to do. After talking to a few friends and family they resort to hitting the send button with their resume thinking that is the work of &#8220;looking for a job.&#8221;  Grit in looking for a job has to do with developing a job search strategy and executing on that strategy no matter how hard or difficult it may be. It is putting up with the ups and downs of the job search &#8211; the rejection, the refusal, the not getting called back, being told you&#8217;re the &#8220;best candidate&#8221; and then never hearing from the folks who told you that.  Grit is what it takes to keep on keeping on in spite of setbacks.<br \/>\nGrit is focusing on the process and not worrying about the results even when it&#8217;s emotionally difficult. It is making one more call after 15 or 16 rejections in a row. It\u2019s overcoming the downright depressive, rejected feeling when you don\u2019t get hired to give you the moxie encourage to immediately go to another interview. <\/p>\n<p>Get grit by:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tEncourage a growth mindset. Individuals with a growth mindset believe intelligence and talent can be developed through hard work and dedication. By contrast, those with a fixed mindset believe a person\u2019s most basic abilities are fixed traits.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tPersevere (perseverance is the pursuit; grit is the trait)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tHard work &#8211; Really, really hard work! Like pushing yourself to make 10 more cold calls, right after you have been rejected.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tDrive to improve \u2013 Get better at what you do daily. Get more interviews. Interview better. Follow up on those interviews better. Drive to improve<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tSelf-regulate. Don\u2019t let others take your \u201cpower\u201d away from you.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tPush yourself. If you don\u2019t end the day feeling mentally and emotionally depleted, you probably haven\u2019t worked very hard.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tFocus on what you can control and mentally and emotionally let go of the things you can\u2019t control<\/p>\n<p>Get grit!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jonah Lehrer&#8217;s book, \u201dImagine\u201d, addresses how creativity works. 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