Tony Beshara

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The job of finding a job is not easy.  It requires hard work and results in a lot of disappointment and frustration.  Unfortunately, you cannot cope with its stress by taking a few days to mope around – if you expect a job any time soon.  Your attitude needs to be positive, expectant, and grateful almost every day.  You must be prepared for refusals, rejections, and blatant rudeness.  I know that these are not natural character traits; they must be learned. 

There daily exercises required to maintain the positive attitude you need to come across in the phone calls you make, the e-mails you write, and the interviews you have.  Importantly, your family and loved ones should also see this attitude – remember that your job search is stressful on them as well.

Even if you have a positive attitude, as many of us think we do, you need to work on it all the time.  Although this is a beautiful, wondrous, and mystical world, many negative things are going to happen to you, if they haven't already.  You cannot prevent every one of these negatives from happening, but you can control how you respond to them.  

The first step in dealing with negatives is to understand and expect them.  In your job search, expect to work hard, expect to be rejected many times, and expect to become frustrated.  Understand what effect each will have on your psyche and prepare yourself for those feelings by having a plan to combat them.

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